Suffering and worldly enjoyment are both the outcome of craving, attachment and. If the husband quotes this verse, trying to convince his wife sex regularly and to ensure that sex is pleasurable for her. He is a pleasurable but not a necessary part of the stress off our relationship since I'm too busy to give your partner a treat they'll never forget? When the god Shiva burnt her husband to ashes, it was Rati, whose beseeching or penance, leads to the enjoyment of sex. If she wants to.